Creating grace is like breathing.  To breathe is to receive oxygen from environment, to transform oxygen into energy to power the body, and to release carbon dioxide, a gift for plants to grow.   Similarly, to create grace,  you simply  receive  the abundant blessings of life, transforming those blessings into emotional energy, and giving blessings back into the world.

To receive the blessings of life is simply to be in a state of gratitude where your attention is focused on the abundant  gifts of life.